Separation and Divorce

“ It was when I stopped searching for home in others
and lifted the foundations of home within myself
I found there were no roots more intimate
then those between a mind and body
That have decided to be whole.”
~ Rupi Kaur

Homecoming: Giving sherpa like guidance through the heroines journey of separation, divorce and beyond back to a true homecoming of your true nature and radiant personal leadership.

For Women

Mostly people do not get married with the idea that they will divorce. They think of themselves as the lucky ones who will prove the statistics wrong. But  in actuality 1 in 3 marriages ends in divorce and a larger percentage of them are initiated by woman and have children in the mix.

Deciding to seperate for a time or as a stage to divorce is a huge decision that no one ever takes lightly as it involves hurting another, disrupting children lives, pulling apart financial partnerships and stepping out into what can feel like a scary new world beyond marriage and partnership. However separating and divorcing { this includes defacto relationships or common law marriages} are at times the best decision for many reasons from a slow falling apart that has become unsalvageable, to leaving an abusive relationship.

There is so much change to undergo during this period from considering separation, deciding on separation, to divorcing and beyond.  There are the obvious structures in place that need to be attended to and there is the deep work of shifting into a different version of yourself. One you have not met before.  It is a challenging time whether you are the initiator or not.

Homecoming is about empowering you to thrive through separation, divorce and beyond. 
Homecoming is for you if you:

  • Are considering separation and wanting to explore how you could have what it is you want within a renewed structure of your intimate relationship.
  • Know you want to separate and would like to undertake it in an empowering way.
  • Have separated and have no idea what to do next and are seeking some guidance through the landmine field of courts, finances and emotional wellbeing.
  • Have property settlements, child care plans and divorce to undertake and want to come through emotionally,  psychologically and soulfully intact.
  • Have divorced and the journey to recovery, co-parenting and a returning to a new self begins.Desire to thrive in your life and create something beautifully new and vibrant.
  • Crave to have your leaving mean something better, more fulfilling and freeing for yourself, your children and your partner.

A combination of street smarts, personal field notes, desire based intuitive training, practical how-to navigating paperwork, the  legal system contracts, agreement creation, self inquiry, deep listening, conflict resolution and deep self care will be offered to have you arrived unpacked, deconstructed and re-birthed stronger, more resilient and confident in a world of your creation.

Homecoming is similar in may ways to Metamorphosis Coaching in that you are invited to attend Money Love, Alchemy of Money as well as the Sunrise Circles that all private coaching clients are invited to participate in.  It differs from Metamorphosis in that it is specifically tailored for added support through the transition of Separation, Divorce and Beyond and may require some daily hand holding and support at times of great upheaval, and implementation so it can be much more intimate and hands on at times.

Homecoming is a 12 months and beyond program.
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“The desire to go home, that is a desire to be whole, to know where you are, to be the point of intersection of all the lines drawn through all the stars, to be the constellation-maker and the center of the world, that center called love. To awaken from sleep, to rest from awakening, to tame the animal, to let the soul go wild, to shelter in darkness and blaze with light, to cease to speak and be perfectly understood.”
― Rebecca Solnit


Raves of Love

Leanne Mckenzie

When I reached out to Lotus as my coach, I was ending my relationship and I was in a place of false walls and some intense projections around my strength, my lack of power and my victimhood. I am only 5 months in to working with this amazing woman and my life has been transformed. I felt at the time I didn’t really need help, but after what I have gone through since then, and the incredible support, hard hitting advice and loving guidance, I know I was blessed to come across her path. When you work with Lotus be prepared for a lot of truth telling, a transformation worthy of a butterfly and some pretty amazing magic, all while accessing your own deep knowing. It’s not easy, it hurts sometimes but you come out with wings you didn’t even know you were growing.~ Leanne Mackenzie

Cara Lo Iacono

Working with Lotus has been one of the most profoundly powerful commitments I could possibly have entered into. Her truth, insight and crystal-clear perception cut powerfully through illusion, catapulting you forward into manifesting your heart’s desires with grace and ease. Simultaneously an inspiration and a vibrant breath of fresh air, Lotus remains a potent catalyst in what has become a complete restructure of my life and being. There are simply no words to truly capture my overwhelming gratitude for having her in my corner as I have traversed the most difficult territory of my life. Lotus is truly a master alchemist and the rarest of jewels.  ~ Cara Lo Iacono

Susana Frioni

Reclaiming your power is no easy initiation, especially when it involves navigating
through the world of legal family matters. Having Lotus by my side every step of the way meant my experience was empowering and enlightening, instead of being emotionally draining. Her expert coaching, intuitive insights and embodied wisdom have radically changed several areas of my life, for the better. I highly recommend working with Lotus if you’re ready to own your full power as a woman.~ Susana Fioni

Rachel Redhouse

If you have stumbled across Lotus Kruse and are considering working with her do not hesitate. I can hand on my heart say it WILL be life changing. I have worked with her for many years. It has been enlightening, challenging, scary and amazing all rolled into one. When I went through separation and divorce (whilst it was extremely traumatic) her coaching helped it to eventually become an empowering experience and an opportunity for personal growth. She has a talent of being able to tease the genius out of you. Honest, real, present and supportive. I have found huge momentum in my life through committing to doing my work with the support of Lotus by my side. I feel truly blessed to have her in my team of supporters. ~ Rachel Redhouse