When women are in the throws of dissolving a relationship she is in the nigredo of herself. She is disintegrating as is the way of the alchemy of this process. Today I have spent the day non stop working with women in the depths of this disintegration, sifting through the remains as well as setting…
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Women know that socially we are under threat just by walking in the park or the extra stretch of beach. Single mothers can have a very specific threat and lack of safety against themselves and against thier children. Often they are in hostile terrain and they are marginalised because of the implicit bias of society…
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“ Intuition is not to be consulted once and then forgotten. It is not disposable. It is to be consulted at all steps along the way, whether the woman’s work be clashing with a demon in the interior, or completing a task in the outer world. It does not matter whether a woman’s concerns and…
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Over the years through my own experience, being with other mothers, observations of the social structure of motherhood and joining the dots through education, I have become entirely suspicious of the concept and construct of Motherhood. I consider it a MOTHERHOOD INDUSTRIAL COMPLEX with the sole purpose to perpetuate the moralised suppression of women as…
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Nothing like working through and creating a powerful and equitable parenting plan for a client to make me need a strong drink. Pity I am having an alcohol free year. I am gonna need a strong chai instead with extra spice to help me relax. Still got to finalise the draft. It takes a lot…
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I want to write about alot of memes and narratives I have seen doing the rounds on IWD about women being strong. Strong leaders, the strength of women being celebrated, it is the strength of women that have got us to this place in the feminist revolution yadda yadda….. Why are we obligated to be…
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Listening to the calling of your brave wild hearts desires isn’t something you need to learn but it is something to harness, practice and embody. . Then once you listen, the question is, will you act from that place? . Are you willing to trust the design of your desires unfolding nature? . At times…
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