There is one extreme of this spectrum. The Ascetic, with their abstenance of sensual pleasure, frugality, hours of stillness, their simple food with no spice, observing the world to get to know it, walking and breathing slow and connected, always noticing……… and then they sleep with their students and disciples or steal the money.…
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It is a stunning day where I live today. Not a day to want to bum people out at all with some hard core current reality. But what is on my mind if you want to read along…….. I am feeling alot of grief running through my body this morning. There are stories many…
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Women know that socially we are under threat just by walking in the park or the extra stretch of beach. Single mothers can have a very specific threat and lack of safety against themselves and against thier children. Often they are in hostile terrain and they are marginalised because of the implicit bias of society…
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Women are accused lovingly or otherwise of talking too much. But I completely disagree I don’t think women talk enough. We don’t talk enough about the sticky bits, the hard parts, the shamed and taboo topics. Women don’t have enough conversations about…. Our reproductive choices and…
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May you know that whatever your personal choices:- Sexual preferences and pleasures, child rearing values, choosing to not have children at all, if you are a cat or a dog person, where you are at in your money journey, if you drop out of uni, are a high flying / low lying self starter, on…
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Did you see the Red Table Talk on Polyamory? I love that this topic is being discussed more openly. ********* What I love about the WHOLE conversation about relationship dynamics, shapes and agreements is that whatever individuals choose for themselves and with one another creates such a more authentic relating space. Your relationship does not…
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Nothing like working through and creating a powerful and equitable parenting plan for a client to make me need a strong drink. Pity I am having an alcohol free year. I am gonna need a strong chai instead with extra spice to help me relax. Still got to finalise the draft. It takes a lot…
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I want to write about alot of memes and narratives I have seen doing the rounds on IWD about women being strong. Strong leaders, the strength of women being celebrated, it is the strength of women that have got us to this place in the feminist revolution yadda yadda….. Why are we obligated to be…
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THE OLD ‘If she was my daughter’ NUTSHELL A NEED FOR EMPATHY BEYOND A WOMAN BEING A DAUGHTER ________________________________________________________ I am not at all shocked this rape as occurred within the parliament building. I am sure it is not the only time a woman has been raped on the property of the parliamentary buildings, within…
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M Y . S A L T . C I R C L E . _______________________________ Engaging with me personally and guests on my social media pages. _________________________________________ Since I started in my current business 9 years ago, I have had opportunity to have people personally message me, e-mail me, troll me in…
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